Many of us are going it alone. Living alone. Single parenting, or care-giving. Working remotely without much social interaction. Spending free time alone. It is a very common Earth School movie theme. Ironically, you are not alone. A multitude are navigating this landscape solo and have many, many soul growth opportunities available to them.
Why would a soul go solo, whether it be pre-birth planned or via post-incarnation free will choices? It can be extremely stressful to be isolated or without much support and guidance in this physical reality. This situation may appear as a block, yet it is an obstacle to be surmounted and learned from. How we perceive the challenge of aloneness determines a harmonious or cacophonous trajectory. I strongly suggest the former viewpoint and hope one might do a deep dive for learning’s sake.
Alone means without other. Interactions might be few and far between, if at all depending on one’s experience. Sink or swim. The swan pictured here is swimming solo. Keep that in mind. Powerful and graceful, you may choose to go inside to hone your intuition, heal wounds, be mindful of your chatter in your head, and make decisions and conclusions as a sovereign being. Re-parenting may ensue. Learning more about self often occurs in quiet times and without others inserting their opinions and even dictates. The strengthening your core can occur if you view aloneness as an opportunity to rest, reflect, and achieve things yourself. Does one necessarily want to experience what might feel awkward, painful, and possibly sad? On a third dimensional level, probably not. On a spiritual level, surely so. How grand it is to set a movie set with stress for growth’s sake!
The alternate viewpoint is to see oneself as a victim to be pitied. This is a physical reality perception that does not go upward and onward. Loneliness oftentimes inserts itself and the aloneness becomes more difficult to endure. How does the alone one break from the perception they are screwed and their life is crummy because they are going solo? Perception shift. Yes. That is as simple as it gets. Consider the flip-side and sit with it for a while. The glass half-full concept with a spiritual spritz might make everything more effervescent. I believe we are not forsaken. Like the swan gliding on the water, we may choose to glide versus sink. Put on the higher dimensional life preserver and wing it. You will probably find your being alone more fascinating than when you hadn’t donned it.
For some, aloneness is a lifetime. Its extension can offer more challenges than if it were short-lived. Some conquer aloneness and others don’t pay it no mind, as it appears friendly and inviting. You have more control over your outcome based on your perception of aloneness than you might realize. If never alone, that is fine. It means that you did not necessarily need or want this experience in this incarnation. So many permutations with so many possible outcomes…
I hope that my addressing this concept assisted you. You are not alone in being alone if you find yourself here. Common movie script. Glide and know you are supported.
With Love, on a swan’s back,
~Joanie
